Anthropology
May 19, 2013
Language Experiment
Part one of the experiment was
probably the most difficult part of the whole experiment. It was hard because I
was the outcast, I tried to talk to my friends but I felt like during the whole
fifteen minute conversation I was playing charades with them when were suppose
to be having a conversation. It is already bad as it is that my friends talk
fast and I already try to say my opinion after they talk, but when we were
having our conversation while I was using just hand movements my friends tried
to interpret what I was saying and it slowed the conversation down.
One of my friends didn’t want to even
turn to me at first to see what I was trying to say until I started to wave my
hands and get their attention. Overall my friends did try to understand me and
slow down their talking so I could show them in hand movements what I was
trying to say, which I thought was really nice and supportive instead of ignoring
me or act like I wasn’t there.
We choose two cultures that we think
might work together to talk to each other and that was Asian and American. We choose these cultures because when we go
out, where we live, there are Chinese restaurants owned my Asians, stores run
by Asians, and nail salons as well. When I attend one of these stores or
restaurants, I have to speak more openly and slowly most of the time even if
have a full conversation with that person. It does seem pretty hard for them to
interpret what I say then me interpreting them, but we do get over it and
usually they are longer conversations of course but they are worth it.
There are people in our own culture that do have the same
problem of not being able to talk and they are considered Mute. Those who are
able to speak and not speak are able to speak to each other through some type of
communication as in sign language or now a days a special device.
In part two of this experiment it wasn’t
as hard as I thought It would be, but it was pretty weird to speak in one tone
with no hand movements, face expressions, or body movements. I lasted probably
about eight minutes. It did get harder later in the conversation because you don’t
really know anyone expression. For example if someone got offended in the
conversation we couldn’t tell, if someone became sad, over joyed, or just
wanted to show a little sass, it couldn’t be shown. I believe that was the most difficult part for
all of us because everything is one way and one way only. My partners also
found it very difficult because it was too hard to stay in one tone and one of
my friends always uses hand gestures and that was the worst part for him.
I believe it is very important that
non-speech techniques are very effective for those who cannot speak to talk to
those who can. It helps to have full conversations with someone and it helps
those who cannot speak to mouth out what we say. I believe there are people who
can’t read body language but at the same time I think it’s something that’s common
for most people. Reading body language helps us interpret what we all say and
know if someone is being sarcastic, happy, sad, angry, and etc. It helps
determine if someone doesn’t want to be bothered as well. Body language
actually tells a lot about a person, my mother always says. I honestly can’t
think of an environmental condition where body language couldn’t be used.
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ReplyDeleteI enjoyed your description of part one, particularly the responses of some of your conversational partners and how they seemed so uncomfortable that they tried to exclude you from the conversation? Why do you think that person responded that way? It isn't uncommon, actually, and people who are non-English speakers probably feel this way a lot in our country, so it is interesting to ask why people respond this way to people who don't speak as they are accustomed to.
ReplyDeleteThe culture question wasn't about comparing two chosen cultures, it was a question about which culture would be more successful communicating complex ideas, a speaking culture or a non-speaking culture?
Can you identify a specific group of people who are unable to read body language?
For the final comment, it isn't an issue of whether or not body language should be used, but situations where it might be beneficial to not *read* body language. Can you think of a situation where body language might mislead you or you might misinterpret it? Do all cultures use the same system of body language?